Your accounts of her are confusing.

Tell me earnestly, do you like her?
She must be very wilful, but is she really nice?
I want to know how she appears to my Harry's mind.' My father borrowed these letters, and returning them to me, said, 'A good soul! the best of women! There--there is a treasure lost!' His forehead was clouded in speaking.

He recommended me to assure my aunt that she would never have to take a family interest in Miss Penrhys.

But this was not deemed perfectly satisfactory at Riversley.

My aunt wrote: 'Am I to understand that you, Harry, raise objections to her?
Think first whether she is in herself objectionable.