Mrs.Flinders was at this time residing with her friends in Lincolnshire.

She had been ill from fretful disappointment when forbidden to sail with her husband, but had recovered before they parted.

Many a weary, bitter year was to pass before she would see him again; years of notable things done, and of cruel wrongs endured; and then they were only to meet for a few months, till death claimed the brave officer and fine-spirited gentleman who was Matthew Flinders.
From the correspondence of these weeks a few passages may be chosen, as showing the heart-side of a gallant sailor's nature.

He wrote to his wife in June: "The philosophical calmness which I imposed upon thee is fled from myself, and I am just as awkward without thee as one half of a pair of scissors without its fellow," an image for separation which may be commended to any poet ingenious enough to find a rhyme for "scissors." The following is dated July 7th: "I should not forget to say that the gentle Mr.Bauer seldom forgets to add 'and Mrs.Flinders' good health' after the cloth is withdrawn, and even the bluff Mr.Bell does not forget you...Thou wilt write me volumes, my dearest love, wilt thou not?
No pleasure is at all equal to that I receive from thy letters.

The idea of how happy we MIGHT be will sometimes intrude itself and take away the little spirits that thy melancholy situation leaves me.