But I never would consent to [marry any man ?], whom I knew to be un[ ?]steady in his principles and a moderate drinker.
If his love for me and respect for himself were not strong enough to reform him before marriage, I should despair of effecting it afterwards, and with me in such a case discretion would be the better part of valor." "And so you have given Mr.Romaine a release ?" "Yes, he is free." "And I think you have thrown away a splendid opportunity." "I don't think so, the risk was too perilous.

Oh Jeanette, I know by mournful and bitter experience what it means to dwell beneath the shadow of a home cursed by intemperance.

I know what it is to see that shadow deepen into the darkness of a drunkard's grave, and I dare not run the fearful risk." "And yet Belle this has cost you a great deal, I can see it in the wanness of your face, in your eyes which in spite of yourself, are filled with sudden tears, I know from the intonations of your voice that you are suffering intensely." "Yes Jeanette, I confess, it was like tearing up the roots of my life to look at this question fairly and squarely in the face, and to say, no; but I must learn to suffer and be strong, I am deeply pained, it is true, but I do not regret the steps I have taken.

The man who claims my love and allegiance, must be a victor and not a slave.

The reeling brain of a drunkard is not a safe foundation on which to build up a new home." "Well Belle, you may be right, but I think I would have risked it.