I think she _is_ forgetting, too.

Oh, of course she gets tired, and sometimes rainy days or twilights I find her on the sofa in her room not reading or anything, and her face looks 'most as it used to sometimes after they'd been having one of their incompatibility times.

But I don't find her that way very often, and it doesn't last long.

So I really think she is forgetting.
About the prospective suitors--I found that "prospective suitor" in a story a week ago, and I just love it.

It means you probably will want to marry her, you know.