[Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young by Jacob Abbott]@TWC D-Link bookGentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young CHAPTER XII 7/21
That was only a beginning--a _right_ beginning, it is true, but still only a beginning.
It produced in him a cordial willingness to do right, in one instance.
That is a great thing, but it is, after all, only one single step.
The work is not complete until a _habit_ of doing right is formed, which is another thing altogether, and requires special and continual measures directed to this particular end. Children have to be _trained_ in the way they should go--not merely shown the way, and induced to make a beginning of entering it.
We will now try to show how the influence of commendation and encouragement may be brought into action in this more essential part of the process. _Habit to be Formed_. Having taken the first step already described, Georgie's mother finds some proper opportunity, when she can have the undisturbed and undivided attention of her boy--perhaps at night, after he has gone to his crib or his trundle-bed, and just before she leaves him; or, perhaps, at some time while she is at work, and he is sitting by her side, with his mind calm, quiet, and unoccupied. "Georgie," she says, "I have a plan to propose to you." Georgie is eager to know what it is. "You know how pleased I was when you came in so still to-day." Georgie remembers it very well. "It is very curious," continued his mother, "that there is a great difference between grown people and children about noise.
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