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Recollections of a Long Life

CHAPTER XVIII
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There is many a minister who would have been spared the worst blunders of his life, if he had only consulted and obeyed the instinctive judgment of a loving and sensible wife.

If we husbands hold the reins, it is the province of a wise and devoted wife to tell us where to drive.
It is very probable that my readers have suspected that this portraiture of a model wife for a minister was drawn from actual life; and they are right in their conjectures.

In the discourse delivered to my flock on the twenty-fifth anniversary of my pastorate was the following passage, to whose truth the added years have only added confirmation, "There is still another sweet mercy which has been vouchsafed to me in the true heart that has never faltered and the gentle footstep that has never wearied in the pathway of life for two and thirty years.

From how many mistakes and hasty indiscretions her quick sagacity has kept me, you can never know.

If you have any tribute of thanks for any good which I have done you, do not offer it to me; go carry it down to yonder home, of which she has been the light and the joy, and _lay it at her unselfish feet."_ On that occasion (for the _only_ time) I heard a murmur of applause run through my congregation.
About the time of our marriage, I received a call from the Shawmut Congregational Church of Boston, and soon afterwards overtures from a Presbyterian Church in Philadelphia, and from the First Presbyterian Church of Chicago.


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