Put yourself in his place a little.

It is all or nothing in the law--as in business.' But Lydia replied: 'When you bring children Into the world, you expect to have them cost you some money, don't you?
You know you mustn't let them die of starvation.

Why oughtn't you to expect to have them cost you thought, and some sharing of your life with them, and some time--real time, not just scraps that you can't use for business ?' She made the same appeal once to her husband in regard to their own lives.

She wanted to see and know more of him, his business, his inner life, and this was her cry: 'Paul, I'm sure there's something the matter with the way we live--I don't like it! I don't see that it helps us a bit--or anyone else--you're just killing yourself to make money that goes to get things we don't need nearly as much as we need more of each other! We're not getting a bit nearer to each other--actually further away, for we're both getting different from what we were without the other's knowing how! And we're not getting nicer--and what's the use of living if we don't do that?
We're just getting more and more set on scrambling ahead of other people.

And we're not even having a good time out of it! And here is Ariadne--and another one coming--and we've nothing to give them but just this--this--this-- Paul laughed a little impatiently, irritated and uneasy, as he always was at any attempt to examine too closely the foundations of existing ideas.