In order to give real advice we must understand the man who asks for it.

If what we say to him is to become of value we must see to it that his mind is put in proper shape to receive advice.

Be sure that he laughs, or smiles at least, before we seriously take up his case.

And when we have done our stunt in the way of advice let's send him away with a fine good humor.

A friendly pat on the back as he goes out our doorway may mean a bracer to his determination.