When I contemplated these relations between us four which have so brightened my life and so invested it with new interests and pleasures, I certainly did contemplate, afar off, the possibility of you and your pretty cousin here (don't be shy, Ada, don't be shy, my dear!) being in a mind to go through life together.
I saw, and do see, many reasons to make it desirable.

But that was afar off, Rick, afar off!" "We look afar off, sir," returned Richard.
"Well!" said Mr.Jarndyce.

"That's rational.

Now, hear me, my dears! I might tell you that you don't know your own minds yet, that a thousand things may happen to divert you from one another, that it is well this chain of flowers you have taken up is very easily broken, or it might become a chain of lead.

But I will not do that.