No reasonable Boer would have seriously objected to a union with England, provided it had been effected under conditions assuring them autonomy and a certain independence.

But no one wanted to have liberty and fortune left at the mercy of adventurers, even though some of them had risen to reputation and renown, obtained titles, and bought their way into Society.
Unfortunately for him, Rhodes was supposed to represent the class of people referred to, or, at any rate, to favour them.

One thing is certain--the great financial interests which Rhodes possessed in the Gold Fields and other concerns of the same kind lent some credence to the idea.
All these circumstances prevented public opinion from expressing full confidence in him, because no one could bring himself to believe what nevertheless would have come true.
In the question of restoring peace to South Africa Rhodes most certainly would never have taken anyone's advice; he would have acted according to his own impulse, and more so because Doctor Jameson was not with him during the whole time Kimberley was besieged.

Unfortunately for all the parties concerned, Rhodes let slip the opportunity to resume his former friendship with Mr.Hofmeyr, the only man in South Africa whose intelligence could measure itself with his own.

And in the absence of this first step from Rhodes, a false pride--which was wounded vanity more than anything else--prevented the Bond from seeking the help of Rhodes.