[The Secret of a Happy Home (1896) by Marion Harland]@TWC D-Link bookThe Secret of a Happy Home (1896) CHAPTER XXIII 9/11
It is easy to train the growing plant, but after the bark is tough and the fibre strong it is a terrible strain upon grain and vitality to bend it in a direction to which it is unaccustomed. Much of the insubordination to be found in the children of the present day is due to the growing habit of entrusting the little ones to servants whose own wills and tempers are uncontrolled and untrained.
A child knows that his nurse has no right to insist upon obedience, and he takes advantage of the knowledge until he is a small tyrant who is conscious of no law beyond that of his own inclinations. The prime rule in the training of children should be implicit obedience.
The child is happier for knowing that when a command or prohibition is stated there is no appeal from the sentence, and that coaxing avails naught.
Uncertainty is as trying to small men and women as to us who are more advanced in the school of life. So much depends upon this great principle of obedience, that it is marvelous that parents ever disregard it.
I have known in my own experience three cases in which it was impossible to make a child take medicine, and death has followed in consequence.
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