"To love the millions of men whom you never see, who do not do you any harm, that costs nothing.
Hypocrites love in that way.

Yet while they claim to love the whole human race, they are hard on their neighbour." "It is easy to love from afar," said Jesus, "and it is easy to love good-tempered and amiable men.

But how is it when your brother has wronged you, and is always trying to do you harm?
You must forgive him, not seven times, but seventy times seven.

Go to him in kindness, show him his error.

If he listens to you, then you have won him.