They indulge in few or no recriminations; are faithful to old associations; more considerate of the prejudices of others than others are of theirs; not more worldly-minded and money-loving than people generally are; and, everything considered, they surpass all nations in courtesy, affability, and forbearance.
"Men, like bullets," says Richter, "go farthest when they are smoothest." Napoleon was much displeased on hearing that Josephine had permitted General Lorges, a young and handsome man, to sit beside her on the sofa.

Josephine explained that, instead of its being General Lorges, it was one of the aged generals of his army, entirely unused to the customs of courts.

She was unwilling to wound the feelings of the honest old soldier, and so allowed him to retain his seat.

Napoleon commended her highly for her courtesy.
President Jefferson was one day riding with his grandson, when they met a slave, who took off his hat and bowed.

The President returned the salutation by raising his hat, but the grandson ignored the civility of the negro.