[Character by Samuel Smiles]@TWC D-Link bookCharacter CHAPTER XI 22/65
What he says about the influence of a happy union in its relation to successful statesmanship, applies to all conditions of life.
The true wife, he says, should possess such qualities as will tend to make home as much as may be a place of repose.
To this end, she should have sense enough or worth enough to exempt her husband as much as possible from the troubles of family management, and more especially from all possibility of debt.
"She should be pleasing to his eyes and to his taste: the taste goes deep into the nature of all men--love is hardly apart from it; and in a life of care and excitement, that home which is not the seat of love cannot be a place of repose; rest for the brain, and peace for the spirit, being only to be had through the softening of the affections.
He should look for a clear understanding, cheerfulness, and alacrity of mind, rather than gaiety and brilliancy, and for a gentle tenderness of disposition in preference to an impassioned nature.
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